tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2735243446539791981.post1318079866176828855..comments2023-03-25T08:18:50.036-04:00Comments on JASON ORTIZ: IN MY WORDS: REVENGE FOR THE BROKEN HEART...BUT WHAT ABOUT THE UNHEARD VICTIM..JASON M. ORTIZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07576103016809163256noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2735243446539791981.post-82784892247255685042012-03-06T11:10:52.078-05:002012-03-06T11:10:52.078-05:00One has to think before having a family. A family ...One has to think before having a family. A family is A FAMILY, not just a woman (or a man) and YOUR CHILDREN. Your partner is not the way to have kids and then throw away. When the situation turns into this, it's already too late, there's no way that kid won't get really messed up in his head. Both parents are serious a**holes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2735243446539791981.post-69097508024941717012011-02-26T10:37:57.832-05:002011-02-26T10:37:57.832-05:00Thank you for sharing.. I think these examples are...Thank you for sharing.. I think these examples arent used a judgin pieces but as tools of an educational learning process because someone reading it has been through it or knows someone who has and Im honored you shared with us your story. Sometimes we do not know how we would react to certain things but can condition ourselves well in advance with acquired skills in self love, anger management & and various other forms of emotional intelligence that can be used in some in the future. I have seen anger, have been angry (as we all have) and often the decisions made in that stage rarely fare well. In this particular situation, her trying to destroy the father of her child is slowly destroying her relationship with her son and I hope anyone that reads this remembers the importance of that element most. Thank you much.JASON M. ORTIZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07576103016809163256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2735243446539791981.post-521203833911921402011-02-23T22:31:14.267-05:002011-02-23T22:31:14.267-05:00I have been, on 2 occassions, the bitter, broken h...I have been, on 2 occassions, the bitter, broken hearted. And, although, I dont have kids with either man, and I dont believe i would have reacted in such a way if I did have a child, it is inexcusable behavior.I suppose I can say that I had used up all my strength in the love I showed in the relationship and at that point I had none left in me. Instead the pain turned to rage. I have never known love before and having been betrayed in both cases, it was even harder for me to understand that sometimes there is an end. That sometimes, people grow apart from one another, or maybe one just doesnt have the heart he once did. I broke into a house, destroyed property that I had once owned. With the other, I worked harder at destroying his ego than I ever had at any love I had shown. In the end, I was still alone. There is no battle to be won in a caSe where love is lost (or maybe never really existed). I wish I could say that I would never have done these things if I had a child as a result of a relationship. But, the truth is, I am not sure if even with a child I would have learned the important lesson of letting go. Today, I only hope that I have grown into a woman of more dignity and less pride. The important thing to always remember is that the pain of the loss of love is temporary. But the regret of paying with an eye for an eye can resonate until forgiveness is expressed. and sadly, some things are unforgivable.<br />Sure we can all judge and say what we think we would do in a situation like this, but in all honestly, no one knows how strong they are until that is the only choice they have. And sometimes, we arent all as strong as we think.<br />Let's just hope that this woman has learned her own lesson in love for self and for her own child. And bless his father for never giving up.Dee Greasehttp://growonflowon.comnoreply@blogger.com