LOVE DOESNT LIVE HERE

So many times people are faced with tough decisions regarding their relationships and more times than I wish, we often make the wrong choices. We tend to use “love” as to some of the most pathetic excuses of we people stick around in some of the most degrading, abusive, neglectful and unfair relationships. This excuse of “love” is usually not “love” at all and it is a form of emotional dependence. This is where people look to them as someone who fills a void, even when there isn’t one. Emotional dependents tend to use “love” as a false excuse...

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CHANGING MY SITUATION

Dear Mr. Lover Man: Been in a relationship for last 7 years. He's not the person I met anymore. Any suggestions? Before you answer, let me give you a little more background. We have two kids together. Were engaged but have called that off. . We met while I was in college and it was magnetic. I thought I had finally found my soul mate. We both like the same types of movies, TV shows, music; he even watches Japanimations. Shortly, after being together for a year and having our first child I found out he was cheating on me. Needless to say, I packed...

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