GETTING A LITTLE MORE

Dear Mr. lover man, I am a married young women in my late 20's who just recently ( as recent as January) decided to separate from my current marriage... In late October i met someone who we just communicated via email/im's etc... Online stuff, (we met online) as the months progress so did our friendship, we grew closer, as close as us both falling in love with each other ....he's is the same situation with a slight difference .. married but NOT separated... Of course we see each other, but that's very limited (as to our situation) and that's really...

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UNACCEPTING ROLES: USED AND ABUSED

Mr. Lover Man, I have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks, the problem is she is sexually active with another man and I don’t know where we stand. I really like her but we haven’t had sex and I’m wondering if its because of the other guy. I don’t know what to do as far as stepping my game up because I feel second to this dude. What do you suggest? 2nd to None MR. LOVER MAN SAYS: Dear 2nd to None, Well, you obviously are feeling the right thing. You ARE second to this other guy and you have to ask yourself if you are willing to accept this...

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MISLEADERS, CHEATERS AND DECEIVERS

Dear Mr. Lover Man, Do all men have to always cheat? It seems like every time I fall for a guy he goes and does something really stupid like cheating. I really don’t think good men exist, so should I accept that all men cheat and just keep the relationship going? Frustrated MR. LOVER MAN SAYS: Dear Frustrated First thing, all men do NOT cheat. Your attracting a series of lame dudes does not constitute a law of all men cheating. There are good men out there and in achieving this acquisition of a good man, one must want it so much that they improve...

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