Sexual in the City

Mr. Lover Man, My boyfriend wants to try anal sex with me and I have a few concerns about this. The pain is a major concern. He wants to try anal beads also and I never tried this, please explain to me these anal beads and what can I do or he do to make our anal sex experience less painful. I love him and really want to try this with him but I am nervous. Willing to try MR. LOVER MAN SAYS: Dear “Willing to try”, Welcome to the world in modern times. These days “Anal” is the new “Oral” or as my friends in the porn industry say “The ass is the...

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Questions needed to be asked

Dear Sir, I need some words on long distance love. I love a man whom I am separated from due to many miles but close to by technology. Any words on keeping this alive? Thank you ahead of time. Anonymous MR. LOVER MAN SAYS: Dear Anonymous The long distance relationship is at times the most challenging but when the moments arise of togetherness, they tend to be the most rewarding. I often use the term “If the rewards outweigh the costs then fight for him”. I firmly believe that love travels miles if love is real. You need to hear his voice hopefully...

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Shhhhhhhh... Just in case you didnt know

Sometimes secret little tips to know about the opposite sex can help a great deal. Both men and women have little things they would like you to take notice, sometimes they don’t even have a clue they like it until it occurs, but in a study I conducted I realized the following….. Pay attention, this just might get you a little bit further than where you are in your relationship. Men PLEASE listen up: Listening to what your woman has to say should not be a job. You should learn to love her interest and opinions, even if you don’t agree with it....

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THE MISUNDERSTOOD "MAN"

There has always been a misconception of the male species or the “Man” or whatever term you may choose. Sometimes the shoe fits and we tend to run with this and package it as a whole and mislead ourselves so much that we think we have it all figured it out until one gets their heart broken or never truly finds happiness. Open-mindedness is under-rated. Some of the things that men are expected to be held in high regard in order to e a “man” are things like income, status and sexuality. Let’s say one lacks, then his “Manhood” is in question, leading...

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Where am I going wrong?

Question 1: I am a very sexual person, but I am trying to find someone that will want me for more than just sex. What steps can I take to insure that I am not finding someone that just wants to have sex with me and leave? *Via Mindy Mr. Lover Man says: First thing you must do is ask yourself “What role do I play in these people wanting me for sex?” You state you are a very sexual person, I’m not sure how well you display that and that alone could send the wrong message and attract a certain response that only entitles you the sexual attention...

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Welcome to my world.....

What is it that makes a relationship successful? So many components and so many unanswered questions. We explore these worlds often with a blind eye or one tainted by societal norms and stereotypical flushings. What happens when these things do not work, when the questions that often flood our minds are not answered and at times we find ourselves afraid to ask? What happens when the choices we make doom us to repeat the failings that often plague our relationships of past? When do we become bold enough to ask, when do we become courageous...

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